My Experience on the Desteni Farm

  

When I first got off the plane in Durban I didn't know what to expect which was cool because previously to departing from Canada I was removing all expectations and ideas about what may happen and/or what it would be like. I had lost my luggage somewhere along the trip so I was informing the airport of the lost luggage as fast as I could so that I could stop waiting to meet Bernard as I knew he was just waiting outside the doors to Durban.

When I walked outside the doors I saw HIM!!! (lol) standing there with Cerise and I immediately smiled because I was finally there, and finally going to live on the farm for a bit. I was doing what I had planned for quite sometime, I am meeting Bernard, I am going to get to find out what the farm is actually like, I am going to meet people in person whom I have followed over the internet for a few years. I was excited.

I got to the farm at night, so everything was dark and I was not sure where or what everything was. The first thing I remember when I got out of the car was Lindsay randomly popping up beside me and saying hi with a hug then Sunette saying hello with a hug as well. Most people were asleep at that time, so I got some food to eat and had a quick tour in the dark of where things were and how the farm was structurally set up. This was cool because immediately it was inviting. Immediately I felt welcome, I didn’t feel out of place, I was fed which was a bonus lolol and was accommodated for, my room was made ready the day before by the people on the farm. Since I lost my luggage, I was given some clothes to use, so everything from the start was welcoming, everything was provided for without having to ask...it was all very accommodating.

Getting accustomed to the routine didn't take too long. I had a bit of trouble getting up in the morning for work and when I had horses in the mornings I missed it more frequently then I made it to the horses. But the fact that there is a routine there helped to get accustomed quickly as I quickly knew what to expect in the days and how and where to direct myself in each new day. This was cool as it gets into the movement of the farm really quickly. I didn't wander around on my own slowly getting accustomed to the place I was placed within it without question, again which is cool because it sped up the process of getting accustomed with the structure on the farm allowing me to fit myself within the structure.

Since the farm is incredibly welcoming, I was `myself` much quicker than in other environments. It usually takes me a long time to find out how to develop myself within a specific environment so that I can `fit` in, such as with work or moving to a different city, but on the farm it didn't take long. I was able to express myself after about a week of being there, in this having conversations with more people and getting to know them as well as sharing myself. I was happy there because of this fact. I was invited and accommodated for, in this I felt welcome as that is what they did, they welcomed me into the farm. I have never experienced that before where I am able to move into a place and within a week I feel absolutely comfortable. That was a big point for me which was comfort. I usually don't feel comfortable outside of my accepted reality, but at the farm comfort was all around. I was able to relax myself in fact, I didn't need to pretend to be anyone to survive, I did not need to develop another personality to fit in, I was comfortable in/as myself, and sharing myself not having to speak words to upkeep the personality in a specific environment

I enjoyed the amount of animals and the wild life that I haven't been able to witness before. On the drives to town often I would see monkeys crossing the road or swinging from branches just off to the side. We had 2 antelopes (I think) hanging around the farm every morning, jumping around in the horse field. I had no idea how well they could jump and traverse land like that, really cool to see. The dogs there were supportive as well, twice they helped out when defusing a build up of energy within a point through showing us that we are still here, the cats were cool, it took a while to get used to how they like to be pet and treated, but once a few cats started coming around the others would start to trust me more as well. The animals were a large part in support of the welcoming and comfort that existed there.

Ohhh the comfort. There was many things for me to do there and to help out in, in this I was included in the farm and not seen as an outsider, or a `visitor` but as an equal in this I felt comfortable as I was not expected to act in any way or present myself in any way but to simply be there and do the duties that were required of all equally.

Even within sharing myself there was comfort. I shared points about being addicted to sex and masturbation and in that others shared how they got over it and what they utilized to get over it, in that there was a comfort in sharing and exposing myself and hearing others stories in which I was able to apply to myself. Talk about relationships was really cool as much was shared in how they had to maintain the agreement and how they had to maintain the agreement and deal with the shit within the agreement and then once getting through the shit and dealing with the shit for the best of the agreement the agreement turned out to be awesome and completely supportive of each in the agreement. Again here comfort within sharing stories, me about past relationships and how I had been within `em and them sharing how they dealt with the shit within the agreement to make the best of the agreement.

I faced the diabetic point within me to an extent where I am not uncomfortable sharing the fact that I have diabetes and how diabetes works and what I must do to maintain the body with insulin injections and testing my blood. Before I was ashamed of having diabetes and having the point pushed within me allowed me to see it as an opportunity to explore instead of holding it as a burden over me. I this I had to develop discipline to test and to stick to a strict diet at times to test out how the diets and foods affect the body and how my relationship with the body also affects the insulin and blood readings.

Overall I enjoyed the fuck out of the time I spent there. It is a second family. A family that is unconventional in the family sense, because we all come from over the world and know each other and share ourselves/experiences to the core of who we are. We all share the same points and are supportive. It is not like the `normal` families where self interest is rampant, it is a family that supports the best possible living conditions of the family. And being included in the family was a joy unlike all other joy. I plan on returning every year when possible.

Desteni Farm and the Equal Labour System

Here on the desteni farm we all work together to get something done in order to improve the farm. In work at home I am only working in existing or myself because the job that I do is only for me, my money and my survival. Here it is not about survival it is about what is best for all, we have to labour for the best for the gardens, plants, animals, structures, humans, all life here that we deal with.

There is no profit motive for us to work. There is an understanding that if we don’t work then the farm here will be infested with weeds, the horses would not have enough food, the animals would be angry at us for not taking care of them, the plants would die out, not being able to provide food, the structures would start to crumble, it must be upkept. In this understanding we work together to maintain the place in which we all live and create it as a place that we all enjoy living within. We put in a collective effort to maintain and develop the farm. The girls work with the garden and plants, where the boys will work with the heavy labour, in this the boys build a garden and the girls will plant all the plants, both working collectively and both share in the rewards of the food grown or shelter built etcetera.

In comparison to my job where I work to survive within the matrix of the world, it can be argued that we all work collectively to get the job done but this is not in fact so. We don’t collectively agree to take a certain job because of a `fair` distribution of jobs, but we take them because they provide us the most money. In that we are actually fighting eachother, not working in agreement to work for the collective of the workforce. As well the job is based on a percentage rate, and the higher percentage you get above a base percentage the more money you get, so we all decide to fuck each other over because we are working in order to survive, not working in collective to get the job done, but always in competition with each other, which leads to extreme stress at times. For example at an office job and there is a promotion coming up and you and another have the opportunity to get the promotion, we stress ourselves out in order to get the promotion to receive more money, so that we can `live` a `better` life. Taking that into consideration, here we are working together so that we all live a better life, where in my job we all compete so that only a few can live a better life, which is not in consideration of what is best for all

The amount of work that we get done is phenomenal. Here we can see the results at the end of the day. We see the garden that has been rotovated, and we see the amount of work that has been put in, and with only 8 guys we have gotten more done with physical results than I have ever participated in. We all have specific jobs, same as the capitalistic system, that we work on and in the end bring it all together so that a project is finished for the whole of the farm. In the capitalistic system we all have specific jobs that we all participate in and in the end we do not benefit the whole but in fact destroy the whole through separation within/as our own greed of money and the necessity to survive in competition with others…simply look at the world and how it’s path is heading and you can see that we are in fact destroying the whole instead of working in agreement within equality and oneness that in fact support the whole to live within the best possible living standards/conditions that is possible in any given moment.

This is equal to how the Equal Money Labour system will work within the Equal Money System, Not working for Profit but for the consideration of the whole, because our living need will be met, thus we need no more than what we have, and when I say need, it is NOT bare minimum needs but a car, a computer, an internet connection, all that one in fact needs in this world. The only thing that is left is to work in agreement to maintain and expand ourselves within/as this world to make all life here expand equal and one with us as we expand when working together, for example in places where there is no infrastructure the motivation is not money but the need for infrastructure, thus the more people work on and agree that infrastructure is needed, the faster it will be developed. It is all based on the needs for people and self. In this all life here works together to make this world the best place in equality and oneness, not in separation from ourselves as our neighbours in how we are existing now. The Equal Labour system will in fact be enjoyable and one is allowed to work at one’s own pace without stress of having to survive within working, the job that needs to get done will get done through the collective participation in all that do in fact participate in it. For example my back has been an issue from working my job. When I got here, started working and felt back pain, they told me not to push myself because then I would compromise myself for the rest of the week/month. In my job I am still required to hit standards whether or not it compromises myself or not I am still expected to hit my standards and this is where the stress can come in as well, and we are all susceptible to this. Where in the Equal Labour System there is no need for profit on the whole so those who `employ` will have the best interest of the `employees` always in consideration without waver. This is why we must implement the Equal Money System, so that we are able to work together, but we also must stop the competition within ourselves, here we are working within a capitalistic system but we are not in competition with each other, we are working for the whole, not individual selves. Visit equalmoney.org, read the material, participate in the discussions and share your vote.

Self-Interest as Self-Sabotage

I have been quite self interested throughout my life to the extent where my self interest lead to me manifesting a consequence that is diabetes. My self interest does not help me become life, it only allows me to suppress myself as life. For example when I was at home I would go through points where I would sit down and watch shows endlessly and eat candy throughout that time which is not what is best for me as a human body and certainly not best for me as a diabetic. So I had to ask myself why I was doing this and find out the origin point. A point that I found is that it is for my pursuit of happiness where I associated entertaining myself with happiness and sugar with happiness throughout my childhood. It is not beneficial for myself to have self-interest whatsoever as that is relevant through my actions and consequence within and as self-interest. What I have also found within investigating myself is that I truly do not enjoy the experience of myself in/as self-interest because it ends up as regret, shame, and guilt. It does not feel good knowing that I allowed myself to eat a great amount of candy and become lazy, and that is what I have defined as happiness. But that is not true happiness. What I have found within myself is that what makes me happy is educating myself, writing myself out, getting done my assignments, because as I am participating in/as self-interest I am attempting to find happiness outside of myself, where when I actually get my assignments done or work on them to a point where I am satisfied I become `happy` in regards to trusting myself to manage myself and make myself more effective within/as the system.

So self-interest is not self-interest but self-sabotage and be wary of self-interest because it is the worst thing that one is able to do to themselves, because all responsibility is given up when self-interest is participated in and if participated in within a pattern the responsibilities build up and up and then one is overcome with guilt, shame and regret then participate in the opposite where all the actions are manipulated within/as the shame and regret instead of being a starting point of a realization of what one has done and act to stop participating in it, because if it is within the energetic polarity then the actions of self-interest are able to repeat. This is where self-forgiveness comes in because if one does not forgive self for in fact sabotaging self no responsibility is taken for the point and if anything only avoidance is acted upon and then the pattern is able to repeat itself. Forgiving self is how one is able to transcend self in fact, because it was me in fact that was allowing myself to and still participate in self-interest.

What I have found that helps is removing the point of happiness and the energetical stimulation that is connected to the word happiness. So as one speaks the word happiness points come up in self that happiness is connected to, then self forgiveness is applied to the pictures, thoughts, images to what self has connected to happiness then one is able to find out what one in fact truly enjoys. What is best for me is removing self-interest and ego in that manner in order to find out what I truly enjoy and it does not need to be within a certain limitation meaning I can go to school for any subject because I simply enjoy learning where if I were to go to school within what I like or want within a educational program my options are limited between what I have told myself I like, which has not been real in my participation of it thus I don’t trust that my wants or likes in terms of choosing a school program is going to be helpful for me.

Remove self-interest remove your ego in which you have been programmed into believing that you like something. Focus on what one is able to do in this reality in order to make self’s life better and life better for all. No other starting point is valid in equality and oneness, all other options are self-interest. Join Desteni to learn more

2012 Courage facing our thoughts

Does Process take Bravery? Courage? + How does one develop said courage

In the process of self awareness we must face ourselves unconditionally. We must face the ugliness that is ourselves in/as the reflection of the world who we are living as. Meaning that the world is a reflection of ourselves and we must face who we are as the world equal and one. Self-honesty is a must and that is where courage comes in, because if you look at what and how humans are living as themselves they are quite fucked up, and that is what we in fact have to face = how fucked up we are living as.

Look at your thoughts and see how many thoughts that you have had over your lifetime that you have attempted to stuff away into your physical and suppress within your sub and unconscious minds in order to not face the fact that you have accepted and allowed those thoughts to take space within as yourself and your reality. That is where courage comes in, looking at ourselves in self honesty to the point of facing the ugliness that is ourselves. Anything less than that will be a fuck up that we will have to move through only to get back to the point of self-honesty again. It takes dedication to be consistently willing to look at ourselves in the mirror and to see who we are in fact are. I mean fuck, I have resisted many thoughts because of the ugliness of the thoughts and in that I have become weak in my application because I have not had the courage to face myself in/as the thoughts that I have accepted and allowed as me as mind.

So yes facing ourselves is going to take courage from self and self will because no one can do this for us except for us and in that we must take responsibility for ourselves and in that we must be willing/courageous to look at who we are in/as the ugliness that we have become and developed ourselves as. The ugliness is not our enemy it is who we have become and in self honesty can we face that which we have become and transcend ourselves to become human in fact. For all that struggle with this point I suggest listening to this interview (http://eqafe.com/p/reptilians-who-is-the-mind-part-15) done by Anu which will assist tremendously with this point.

Supressing Self

Through watching the documentary (the second part now) "The Century of Self" I have learnt that through suppressing our `natural` emotions, the emotions that are too outrageous for us to face, we become very confused beings, we become uncertain of who we are and of who we should become and what we should do with ourselves. This can lead to suicide, this can lead to hysteria, dementia, schizophrenia, and many other mental illnesses. The reason why these occur is because how we as humans have accepted and allowed society to develop, and how we have conditioned ourselves to conform to a certain accepted lifestyle. This conformity is the goal of society in order to keep society running/flowing in the way that it has been, and through conforming we become a guided programmed being with the goals and objectives in that which society has already `in store` for us. All of our life is directed once we conform to `how we should live`, and in that we become automated following the direction that which society would like for us, and in that not directing ourselves but having these desires and unconscious thoughts direct us.

Within conforming to society we are suppressing who we are as humans, through attempting to live like `civilized` beings, not taking a look at who we are as `nature` and deciding to change that as who we are as our nature. Our nature is disgusting = look at how we have been treating the Earth and ourselves, look at how we have in fact been existing. It is not special, we are not significant, we are actually quite fucking oblivious to how we are actually existing, we are not a benevolent creature, we are a destructive one. So what is interesting about the point of the ability to suppress ourselves is that if we are able to suppress ourselves we are able to change ourselves, we are able to stop living as our accepted nature, but in order to change ourselves we must face ourselves. We must face the ugliness as who we are and in that face who we are as thoughts, as that which we have become, forgive the acceptance of how we have lived, remove the symbols that which stimulate how we have been living and set a goal of equality in that we see eachother as equals, as another being walking this planet equal and one to me, as another source of substance equal and one to me as substance equally, and in that realize that what we do to another we in fact do to ourselves, and live a new self living in a way that is best for all and best for self.

Investigate Desteni and Investigate an Equal Money System, see how we must change in order to live as new beings, and to stop our destructive self.

2012 Devoting time to Sex

I have recently done the 21 days without masturbation. What has occurred is that I have joined a dating site and have then been possessed with sex still. What has happened is that I have gone from the point of fascinating about having sex and masturbating to actively looking for sex. I am still in the sex system and the sex system is quite large. I looked at the point a few times and have agreed with myself that I am not ready for a relationship due to me not being stable emotionally and being a living example of self-direction, yet I continue to participate on the site and actively look for sex.

The point that I started off with in the 21 days of no masturbation was a realization of/as males and their view of the female. This occurred through watching the documentary at Stoppornculture.org and I suggest to any reading this, if you haven’t already, to check out that documentary. Watching that documentary allowed me to see porn from an outside perspective, meaning that when watching porn or becoming lustful and/or horny I become swept up in that experience and lose sight of reality, lose touch with reality and only focus more and more on stimulating the energy that I create from viewing a female, and watching the documentary allowed me to see past the lust/horniness. I saw that I was saying that the female body should be here for me, that it is for my viewing pleasure and that is it. That the female body is here to please me, which is fucking absurd, disgusting and degrading towards us both as life. The female body is here to express itself unconditionally, which unfortunately, has not been allowed as the female form has existed under so many conditions for quite a long time….Anyways stopping masturbating for 21 days has allowed me to calm the lust and horniness when it arises and deal with it effectively but the search and want for sex is still relevant within me shown through me participating on the dating site.

Daily I am looking at the site, hoping for messages, some socialization between me and a female that would hopefully in some way lead to sex = the same point as viewing porn, I am still caught up in the sex system and valuing sex over myself as life and still allowing myself to be directed with/through the desire for sex, which I have then allowed to compromise myself in my other responsibilities that I have to do throughout the day. Thus I am still controlled by sex and am still directing myself within the object of attaining the experience of sex.

Sex is a necessity but allowing my time to be directed through/as the want of sex is not cool as I am attempting to live out a desire forever searching, not allowing myself to be here with myself as breath, breathing in my body here. I am allowing myself to direct myself with energy which does not last very long, not allowing myself to direct myself with breath that lasts a lifetime.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to place more importance on the desire for sex than on myself breathing here as life
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to direct myself within lust and within the desire for sex allowing myself to be easily manipulated and controlled in/as the pursuit of sex
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to brainwash myself telling myself that I must search for sex and giving into the ideals of/as sex and a relationship
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to spend a vast amount of time searching for someone to have sex with instead of participating with myself here as breath as life
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to move myself within/as the desire for a female
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to objectify the female body, allowing myself to separate myself from/as the female body/expression

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create energy out of viewing the female body only seeing women as an image
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to value myself as an image, define myself as an image within/as the accepted societal definitions of/as attractive and or sexy in order to present myself to attain sex, not allowing myself to be here with/as myself breathing.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to value a relationship more than myself here as life, allowing my life to be directed within/as the want for a relationship/sex

I stop allowing myself to be directed through the want of sex and take direction of/as my own life within/through sticking to myself breathing here. I allow myself to move with myself first and foremost focusing on myself first and my self-satisfaction of/as myself first, stopping the want for a relationship as `comfort`. I apply myself in being comfortable with myself.

For the agreement course that desteni is offering, that will help with all relationship issues, visit http://desteniiprocess.com/courses/relationships  this will be of much help for all of us who are walking these points. 

2012 How to Change Competition and Survival

While watching Frozen Planet a peculiar image struck me and that was of a penguin stealing another penguin’s rocks in order to build his own nest. What they do is build a nest out of available rocks in the artic, so that the females are enticed by their proposal to lay their eggs there. It is similar to owning property as a sign of value to a mate in the ritual that we play when looking for a mate. So while one penguin was going and gathering rocks, there was another penguin close by him, and each time the one who was gathering rocks left his nest, the other would walk up to its nest and steal the rocks and build his own nest with them.

This is quite similar to what we as humans do and is also quite deceptive and from the point of competition of finding a mate. We as well will stab others in the back so that we can survive in this world as well. Why this struck me is because I have been judging humanity for its actions as if they are the worst of the worst, but that simply is not the case. All Life on Earth is equal and one to humans and humans are equal and one to all life on Earth, thus any judgment is irrelevant. Penguins will steal from eachother so that they can find a mate and in that prolong their existence. People will steal and manipulate eachother so that they can gain money so that they can prolong their existence. So why live like this?

I don’t find this way of living cool at all. I mean why must we compete with others on this Earth in order to survive? Why can we not live with each other supporting each other to better each other. Only when the point of having to survive or fight for our survival on this planet is removed will that be within reach. Thus only when we don’t need to go out and forage for food (work for money) will we be able to consider our neighbours as our equals and assist them in life as well as ourselves equal and one. Thus only once an Equal money system is established will we be able to change indefinitely our course of nature and as a result change the course of nature of this world. We as humans are able to change our nature…simply through the choice of whether or not we want to mate is an example of how we can alter our nature, so why accept our nature the way it is, why not exist as a group supporting the group doing what is best for the group and thus best for self in all moments? Join Desteni, Support Equal money. 

2012 Programmed Humans

In the documentary Century of Self the first part outlines the works of Edward Bernays and how he is basically behind what we know today as consumerism or capitalism.

In the works of Freud, it is said that humans have a nature of violence or lashing out or an all-out hate towards each other. Governments feared this, attempting to come up with a solution that would not lead to a revolution or another civil war which is not good for the governments or the corporations in terms of being able to make money off of the populous. So what Bernays did was to develop the desires of man and direct them towards an object or an idea, thus effectively controlling man through controlling their desires, which in essence leads man in their ventures.

In the 30’s, 40’s and some of the 50’s, objects were sold through their functionality, their superior functionality was sold through the advertisements, boasting a better life than the competition or boasting better durability, or better quality in some form or another. This was not good for keeping the desires of man in control because in these advertisements the desire of the object was not supported or made, only the functionality of the object was supported, thus no desire was being created and thus the knowledgeable of Freud’s work realized that man was not being control and feared having them lash out in revolution.

Ads then became more about the want for the item because of this reason or that reason, it no longer became about  the quality or functionality of the item it became about creating the want for the item and not necessarily the need of the item. This was then to lead humans, attempting to suppress the negative animalistic nature that we are. What is interesting about this point is that the desire was there but it was undefined at the moment meaning we tell ourselves now that we need anti-acne cream, but who decided that we needed anti-acne cream, meaning that the desire was programmable and thus we are programmable as the desire, we are susceptible to what people tell us to what is influenced towards us and thus we are programmable.

No one said that we needed anti-acne cream or the phones or the movies or the entertainment, but we have accepted that as our desires , meaning we accepted and allowed ourselves to be programmed with these desires, showing that what and who we are is programmable. Take for example that it is not anti-acne cream, say it is a blade of grass, now if we were influenced that we absolutely needed that blade of grass, that that blade of grass would make our lives so much better than what they are currently, we would start to want that blade of grass and desire that blade of grass thus showing that we are programmable within/as desire.

Looking at the point from a larger scale, when we get into this world we are not programmed, it is only when we grow up in this system do we accept ourselves being told that we need these things that we have come to live and develop our world around. We become programmed into what makes us happy, thus some of us move towards appearance to make us happy and we diet ourselves and exercise, where others food makes them happy and they eat what they like, thus we decide on our programmed nature, and we are programmable.

To investigate how we were designed to become programmable visit http://desteni.org  , to take action within/as our preprogrammed selves, re-programming ourselves into something that is best for all support and Equal Money System, for extensive, investigative, and fascinating interview  visit http://eqafe.com

2012 Changing Human Nature

There is a measurement called the Power-Distance Index that measures how people see titles in this system and how they are within/as the definitions of the titles. For instance it measures how an employee will see their manager and how far they see the manager from themselves. A high power distance indexed country is Brazil, and a Low PDI country is New Zealand, so in Brazil a manager has a lot of power over an employee and that employee will be subservient to their manager to the fullest extent whereas in New Zealand an employee would take much less `shit` from their employer, and more so, see their employer as their equal.

In the book outliers `Outliers` by Malcolm Gladwell, the PDI is brought up in relation to investigating how flights crash and what events and significant roles are taking place in the case of crashes. The PDI consists of measuring a person’s view of a `superior` figure in their world to determine the PDI, but it is not only the `view` of a superior but the accepted and allowed `nature` of how the superior is able to be treated and is expected to be treated by a subordinate.  In the book an account of an auditor sitting in on a flight with Korean Air is given

In the Delta report on Korean Air that was posted anonymously on the Internet, one of the auditors tells a story of sitting in on a Korean Air flight where the first officer for confused while listening to the Air Traffic Control and mistakenly put the plane on a course intended for another plane…..and then comes the key sentence: “Captain hit First Officer with the back of his hand for making the error.””(Gladwell, 214)

In this example the power distance index is clearly shown where the captain is the superior and the first officer is the subordinate and the interactions between the two are severely one-sided. In the accepted and allowed nature of Koreans the superior is able to hit the subordinate for making a mistake and it is accepted as so, thus the nature of a subordinate that is programed into/as the culture of Koreans is to be submissive, passive, to take abuse, etc. Here is another example of how the accepted and allowed nature of a superior and a subordinate is Korean culture.

At a dinner table, a lower-ranking person must wait until a higher-ranking person sits down and starts eating, while the reverse does not hold true; one does not smoke in the presence of a social superior; when drinking with a social superior, the subordinate hides his glass and turns away from the superior;…in greeting a social superior a Korean must bow” (Ho-min Sohn)

Why this is important is because in the investigation of airline crashes the First officer whom was communicating with the Air Traffic control centre, or with the captain himself, who had witnessed a dire mistake with the route, plane, or operation of the plane was too timid and passive to speak up about the problem to his `superiors` which lead to quite a few crashes in Korean Airlines.

When all of this was going on (Korean Airlines is not a top ranking airline is flights to crash ratio) Korean Airlines called in an outside person to solve this problem which was inherent in the Korean’s nature. He had to re-train them to develop assertiveness and to take control over situations when it is needed from them to avoid a crash or a fatal failure in communication or operations. The Koreans who were employed by Korean Airlines had to make substantial changes to their nature of who they accepted and allowed themselves to be in order to function properly and safely while flying a plane.

After leaving Korean Air, Greenberg helped start up a freight airline called Cargo 360, and he took a number of Korean pilots with him. They were all flight engineers, who had been number three, after the captain and the first officer, in the strict hierarchy of the original Korean Air. “These were guys who had performed in the old environment at Korean Air for as much as fifteen to eighteen years,” he said. “They had accepted that subservient role. They had been at the bottom of the ladder. We retrained them and put them with Western crew. They’ve been a great success. They all changed their style. They take initiative. They pull their share of the load. They don’t wait for someone to direct them. These are senior people, in their fifties with a long history in one context, who have been retrained and are now successful doing their job in a Western cockpit (Gladwell, 220)

So for all you nay-sayers that human nature cannot and will not change in relation to an Equal Money system, here is proof that human nature can indeed change, it is all in the choices of who and what we accept and allow ourselves to be and become. You only are against an Equal Money system so that you can maintain your lifestyle and keep your abusive selves and the abusive system and world that we are currently living within/as. To state that human nature is unable to change is only stating that you are not willing to change as it is evident and clear that humans do in fact have the ability to change their nature. Stop fighting for your right to abuse, join desteni and change self into/as a better self that walks in support of what is best for all in every moment so that we may manifest what is best for all here on this Earth, and stop stating that human nature is unable to change as that is not fact.

2012 Why Aliens are not coming to `Save us`

2012 Why Aliens are not coming to `save us`

It is a commonly held belief that a race of superior beings will come down this year and rescue only a certain few to restart the human race over again once the `shit has hit  the fan`. Unfortunately, no matter how great this sounds, this is not going to happen. If aliens were watching us they would see and understand that we as humanity are simply killing ourselves and are deciding to do nothing about it. They would the understand that humans are complete morons and should not exist another generation because all that we have done throughout our history is abuse, rape, demolish, de-life the Earth.

Take a look at what if aliens were watching us. They would see us killing eachother. They would see us clearing out forests that provide oxygen for us as well as all other non-plant life on this Earth. They would see us destroying wildlife habitats continuously. They would see us dehumanizing other humans because of a belief in who `created us`. They would see people allowing people to starve to death while others get to live in a luxury that is unheard of in the natural world. They would see animals being raised so that they can be slaughtered, they would see animals being kept in conditions that are horrendous, abused and tortured. Given all this that they would see on a MASS scale why would they decide that humanity must live on and that a few must repopulate the Earth? Because of Love? Unfortunate as it is, love has never existed and will never exist within/as humanity in the current state of/as humanity = look at the entirety of the human race and its actions and tell me if there is anything that resembles love. Because a few specific human beings love? Again, no that does not exist either, in the micro and macrocosm all relate each other equally thus one human is equal to all of humanity thus not one human loves when humanity exists the way it does. Thus why would an `intelligent` being decide to save humanity? If an alien was intelligent it would know not to waste its time on humanity because humanity has shown what it actually is.

So people, we have created this mess that we are currently surrounded by and we must get ourselves out of this mess. There are no alien races that will be coming to save our asses from our own shit, we must take responsibility for what we have created here on Earth and fix ourselves as the mess that we have created. We must fix this mess by `fixing`/changing ourselves into something that supports life. This takes a reworking of our Nature as human beings, and it first takes an understanding of our Nature as human beings currently. It is not going to be fun because we must face the shit that we are in order to become fertilizer for life. We must forgive ourselves for what we have accepted and allowed ourselves to exist as and do, so that we can move past how we are acting and re-create ourselves in equality in the physical as Earth/Universe. Investigate the tools of Self-honesty, Self-forgiveness, Self-correction as well as the principles of what is best for all and Equality and Oneness at http://desteni.org . Research, investigate, and support an Equal money system as the solution for a method on how to receive the necessities of life at http://equalmoney.org